Testimoniale

written by Sorin

POVESTILE UNOR BARBATI CARE AU APLICAT DIRECTUL SI CONEXIUNEA PROFUNDA CU FEMEILE LA WORKSHOPUL 1-LA-1 SI CE REZULTATE AU AVUT EI

La Workshopul 1-la-1 de Seductie, au participat atat baieti/barbati din Romania, povestile lor in limba romana putand fi citite aici, cat si barbati din toata Europa, povesti ce le poti citi in engleza, mai jos:

Kaillu, 18

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Hey there! This is my testimonial after participating in a workshop with Sorin.

I have to admit that at first I was skeptic about the workshop.

I was keep asking myself, what could Sorin tell me that can make me change my perspective about women that I didn’t think off? I mean, hey, I already get positive feedback from them, I can make them laugh, they find me cute, isn’t that enough? Well it it wasn’t, cause most of the times they slipped between my fingers, and I was about to find out why…

We started with some chit-chat, getting to know each other, and after that we got down to business.

He explained to me how direct works and what is the whole concept behind it. Step by step, as Sorin was going further with the explanations, I started to see more and more, that my old tactic in interacting with women, and that is being C&F and acting all “mister interesting”, wasn’t going to get me very far. I was making connections and started to believe that the things Sorin was telling me about could actually work.

That’s when we decided that theory is enough. So off we went to the nearby mall but didn’t quite find what we were looking for, and that is girls that we are genuinely attracted to. So we changed location. There the fun part began, approaching random women in the mall.

Then it hit me. Talking about it seemed easy but now I was in front of the real deal and to be honest it scared the shit out of me. So Sorin started to explain to me the phenomenon, pushed me into it, and after few minutes walking around finding excuses and I realized that is now or never, that I had to do something, and quickly!

The first couple of approaches went good, the girls reacted really well and all my scenarios of “what can happen” were rewritten. I still had to work on it, but hey, I didn’t get any negative reactions, they all smiled and seemed flattered by what was happening. Then we stopped for some feedback, Sorin gave me more advice, and now was time to approach two girls at once. Ha, piece of cake, took a deep breath, a big smile on my face and went for it. At first they seemed surprised and one was even a bit feisty but after a while it all started to go smoothly, I even got the number of one of them. I was feeling really good, full of confidence so we headed for the clubs.

Here I was more in my domain. I was more relaxed and it all went more naturally. I was getting IOI’s from girls and my confidence was rising and rising. Then I started the approaches, that by the way went very good, the girls were responding positively, laughing and stuff, one even gave me her number. After each “round” I was receiving valuable feedback from Sorin.

All in all I think that the two most important things of this workshop is that it has given me that push that I needed and that now I have the tools to be able to evaluate my “performance” on the field.

“The best performance improvement is the transition from the non-working state to the working state.”

Stelios, 33, Grecia

Pentru orice intrebari legate de experienta sa la workshop scrieti-i in engleza la : sgkral@gmail.com

Hi this is Stelios and this my testimonial of having a workshop with Sorin

Sorin is not a Pick Up Artist, but neither Casanova was!
I wanted to become a Pick up Artist when I decided to attend Sorin’s workshop, but I learned something better, Something more powerful. How to make women instantly fall in love with me!

Sorin didn’t make me a Pick Artist. Sorin taught me how to get only the women I really wanted.

But let’s take it from the beginning!

When I decided to take Sorin’s workshop I had a very bad indirect game possibly because my inner game was also chaotic. I didn’t know it then but people with not a solid inner game tend to appreciate the indirect game (routines, gimmicks tests, openings C&F). That was the first thing Sorin tough me when he got to Greece.
Indirect game is for people who need excuses for women. Who need to come under the radar when they are in an interaction with a woman. We are men. We don’t need this. We need to be direct with our needs and our sexuality.

I wont’ reveal for obvious reason what Sorin taught me but I will stick my review to the result of the that workshop.

From the first day we spent together with Sorin I was amazed by the fact that when he was walking on the street women couldn’t keep their eyes from him. Sorin explained to me that this is not a result of good looks and expensive close and analyzed to me which elements produce that effect. We talked about getting the attention of women and Sorin gave my many secrets that cant be found in the indirect workshops (I have attendant a mystery method workshop)

First day we hang around in Greece and talked about where we needed to get with the workshop. We talked and got to know each other without doing any approaches. Sorin knew exactly who I was and I could see in his eyes that he had the perfect plan for me. Also Sorin has a skill to put you in any mood he is in. A skill he tough me later which is very useful because if you change the mood of women they always want to be with you.

The second day we visited some archeological sites where Sorin made a movie of me telling stories and expressing myself. When the workshop stated we analyzed the movie and Sorin talk to me about the art of storing telling and projecting emotions in a relaxed way. A powerful tool! Then he taught me all about the approach. I mean the guy analyzed step by step the approach and we talked about it for 2 hours. First day was also about destroying my old belies and building new ones. Then we went out.

I ll just give you one highlight…

We went to some clubs. I wanted to approach women but fear prevented me (later Sorin taught me a great way to handle me approach anxiety). So Sorin approached a really beautiful girl without even care if she was with a boyfriend. They were so connected that after 15 minutes her friends invited me over. I got talking with one hot girl and by using what Sorin taught me I had her in no time me touching me and laughing. I got her number and we left.

Second day was about Rapport and Deep connection with Women. A mind blowing experience. That lesson alone was worth the cost of the seminar. Sorin gave me a 3 hour nonstop seminar about connecting with. People. A prize lesson. I mean c’ mon which one of the Pick up artist really explains and analyzes step by step rapport and building comfort. Sorin does this, and that he does well!

We went to the seaside and there we approached two girls. A party girl and more serious girl. I got talking with the party girl and gor attraction quickly and Sorin was having a love affair with the other! Got the number and we left.

The seaside adventure

That night I was reborn. I said my goodbyes to my inderecet self and discovered the beauty of direct game.

THE NIGHT EVERYTHING CHANGED!

I made eye contact with a girl in Club and the I just went to her and told her that she is beautiful I would like to get to know her (also I used everything sorin taught me aboy inner state and projection). She was amazed, shocked and smiling that a guy would come to her so direct, She loved it! She told me her name introduced me to her friends, I grabbed a chair and we talked for a while. I used my new rapport skills for my first time. It got me staying there and connect. After a i to get her number, even thou she had second thoughts because of her boyfriend (not there)!.
After that Sorin made me do the impossible. To approach 2 women who have been already approached by two (boring) guys. I went in turned the guys to face me, pass them, went to the bar and talked to the women. They were shocked but still talk to me and laughed. The guys were paralyzed! One tried to AMOG me but I ignored him and kept talking. I didn’t want to provoke anything so after a while I told them that we could meet later. I sat with Sorin and both girls kept giving us eye contact. Sorin later grabbed them.

I did some more approaches and I learned many thing from them. Every approach is another lesson.

The next days of the work me and Sorin talked about inner things with Sorin and how to put everything I thought together. Sorin kept analyzing and analyzing everything, answering evry question I had about anything. I was getting better. I didn’t turn in to a Casanova over night but every day I was becoming more confided social happy and attractive. I was starting to get eye contact in the street especially after I had made approaches.

One night we bummed to my ex girlfriend. I used everything all my skills It was Funny to see the impact I had to her even though the emotion between us had long gone . Her emotional self waned to give in but her logical side kept her from it. When I took my ex outside to kiss I saw Sorin also kissing her friend who by the was madly in love with him.

Basically now I cam make women attracted to me and get solid numbers. But I know that if I apply the full teaching of Sorin and root inside me the knew skill I ca seduce the woman I like in a short time.

aproaching direct

I could write so many other things but a workshop with Sorin is something you experience on a deeper level. It changes your views for life, makes you forget about that crazy trend of picking up and teaches you the basic think of being a man about your needs. I know how to be above society rulers, be a self contented man and project it how to be confidant with women and how to connect with me the emotionally.

I am still working my skills but now I know where I need to get and how to get there. I met a master and now I have a friend. We shocked hands when we met and we hugged when he left.

Thanks Sorin!

P.S Well, ok! I will give you only just one of Sorin’s secrets. “If you don’t REALLY like the girl and you are just picking her up, you will never get her”. Think about it!

Jean, 20, France

Pentru orice intrebari legate de experienta sa la workshop scrieti-i in engleza la: jeancaesar@gmail.com

In 2006 I had done a workshop with Badboy (www.badboylifestyle.com), where I learnt some fundamental lessons. The most important one was that I realised (at a profound level, not at the logical one) that it is the man’s duty to make the first step and that you have to persist and to read her bodylanguage and not listen to what she is saying (example: “No” with a wide smile and shiny eyes).

I used to do indirect approaches, and I thought that Direct only works very rarely and with a lot of luck. But I was more of an actor than an authentic man. And on many occasions it was quite difficult to pretend that I was high-energy and to really manifest myself by using stories and particular routines. It was forced and not natural, and I think that’s what affected the long-term effect (or the lack) of Badboy’s Workshop.

With Sorin I met in the train station in Bucharest, Romania where we were supposed to take the train to the seaside. On the way there we talked and got to know each other. He told me what his philosophy is regarding girls and pickup. But I still couldn’t imagine how direct could work so well.

On the first day we got a little rest from the long journey, we established what our goals for the workshop were, goals related to my lovelife. On the first evening we went out into the seaside resort to feel the energy, to see how things were. At one point I went into a club where I received an Indicator of Interest from a cute girl that took a seat right next to me (on my right). There was plenty of space around but she chose to sit next to me. I felt that but I didn’t have the courage o talk to her in a direct way. Sorin who was on my left kept pushing me COME ON, USE THE OPPORTUNITY!! But I hesitated too much and the girl when back to her friends on the dancefloor.
Sorin told me: “Go directly at her right now, right there and tell her that you like her, right there next to her friends!” I bit the bullet and I went to her. I walked between her friends and I whispered at her ear that I like her and I want to get to know her (there was loud music) She reacted very well!! She was happy that I came to talk to her! I could see her eyes shine. I isolated her to where she sat initially, then isolated her again somwehere else where we could hear each other better. (Sorin was signalling me to do all this behind her back). She was a little shy, and I was a little tensed, otherwise our interaction would have gone a lot longer way. After 20 minutes I ended the conversation and I went off.
I was shocked at how good Direct worked and how easy it is! No fake stories and too much hassle.

We took a good rest and the second day Sorin gave me the theoretical part of the workshop with exercises to discover what my values were.

He explained to me how connection between people works but I needed practise to really understand it.

We went down to the beach, took a short swim, we cooled down our brains from all that learning and we went out again in the evening. He gave me a demonstration when he went to talk to a girl who was in the middle of her social group. He went passed all kinds of AMOG’s (guys wanting her attention) and all sorts of obstacles until he got her number, and the girl was clearly interested in seeing him again.
I did a few approaches, some better than others, but I was still tensed…
On the third day we practised day-game more. I was afraid to approach girls on the beach, but he showed me again that it is possible.
Wondering about the place I tried to do indirect approaches but after the experience I had with direct, it seemed stupid to lie the girl straightface, as if she doesn’t know why you came and talked to her. I then tried Direct on uglier girls to which I felt no attraction and it didn’t work. I clearly felt the fact that it’s obvious that I was lying and that I don’t really like them that much in order to get to know them… They felt that as well and it didn’t work.
Walking by I observed 2 very beautiful girls and I told him that I’d really like to talk to those girls… But they had already gone passed and I thought I had lost the opportunity. But again he pushed me from behind and told me to approach “sideways” while walking with them…

With a wide smile and very authentic interest I told them that I liked them and I want to get to know them and then I introduced myself straight away and their reaction was amazingly positive. They seemed 2 unapproachable girls who thought highly of themselves, and the boys that were passing by were just looking but didn’t dare do more. But they were very open to my approach and I talked a little with them.

Again I wasn’t able to relax properly and go into true rapport with them as I should have, so I ended the interaction graciously after 5-10 minutes. I almost felt that they wanted more and they wanted me to lead them properly, and they wanted us to connect on a deeper level.
This experience motivated me a lot and again it was a clear demonstration to how well direct works. Getting better and better, I evolved and I felt that I could go and talk to any girl I liked, to see what she was like and see whether we clicked or not (which of course is part of Sorin’s philosophy)

We spent the evening with 2 girls that were accomodated right next to where we were and which we had met the day before. We had some alcohol together and we had fun all 4, and then just 2 of us – it was nice. On Day 4 of the workshop I was already good with rapport and I was quite relaxed in order to take the interaction a longer way with the girl I liked, the next step I had to do was kino (touching).

In the evening, at the club, I saw a group of girls on the dancefloor, one of them was really beautiful (taller than me,etc), that no one dared talking to. I took a few breaths of fresh air and I went directly to her, I turned her over to me and I told her I liked her and I wanted to get to know her. Again, an incredible response, and despite several “mistakes” which I then did, she gave me her attention and was very receptive to me.

On Day 5 I was doing approaches on the beach with a lot of ease and I talked many tens of minutes getting to know girls. Sometimes I would get phone numbers and I’d set up dates, other times I didn’t but unfortunately I had to leave the next day and I wasn’t able to follow up with those girls, I prefered to meet other new girls instead.

The last evening was exceptionally good, beautiful girls everywhere, incredible energy all around, and I was able to meet them, and with some… even more…

I then met some friends that came to the seaside, and I spent the evening with with a girl, in my room, while Sorin was kind enough to understand and let us enjoy the room by ourselves.

In the morning at the train, we both were parting in different directions. We said good bye like 2 very good friends (which we became during those 6 days). I was very satisfied and this experience changed my mentality and attitude regarding “the art of seduction” and pickup altogether into a much more healthy mentality and a lot more beneficial on the long term:

One should approach because one likes the girl not in order to train oneself, not to get rid of “fear of approach” but for the only fact that you think the girl is beautiful and you want to get to know her, and you’re doing your duty as a man to see whether you’re good for each other or not, if there’s a “click” between the two of you, or not…

And a very important exercise we did on day 4, was an exercise where I did a list with the things I can offer to a woman and how I do that, and Sorin checked that list, and we analyzed everything I thought about, what a woman would enjoy, what not and why… This exercise was fundamental for me because I realised that the things I can offer to a woman are unique, special, and it’s a lot more than other can offer (of course i’m not talking about material things).

The workshop with Sorin, didn’t just show me the what and how about connecting to a girl (and people in general) on a profound level, but it also opened me up as a human being, it gave me an honest and authentic confidence, something mroe profound, not just that workshop high, that boost of confidence after the workshop only.

Now I am able to go up to the girls I like, despite any approach anxiety I may have, which doesn’t disappear but we just have to get over. You can do 9999 approaches until you feel no fear of approaching, but in a week’s time (or even the next day) you will feel it again. I am able to lead the interaction and escalate, to meet new girls and develop a relationship with the ones I feel good with and get along with, the ones that have the values I am looking for…

The mentality in the seduction community in general is that if you practise enough, you will be able to have ANY woman, you will be able to manipulate her and make her yours. I had simillar thoughts but the philosophy I learnt from Sorin is much more healthy and beneficial on the long term. You don’t have to go out and approach 4 hours a day and do 100 approaches to become good. If you want, you can do that but I’m sure not everyone will feel good or will have the necessary energy to do that. On the other hand, when you’re just walking down the street and you see a girl you like (a situation that happens to me very often, and I’m sure that a lot of people get the same thing…), you just go up to her and you are able to lead the interaction as it’s all supposed to be… THAT’S PRICELESS!

Delux, 26, Denmark

Pentru orice intrebari legate de experienta sa la workshop scrieti-i in engleza la : selvsikkeraraber@hotmail.com

I am not going to talk about Sorin as a person neither I am will talk about myself and my success but I will talk honestly about his coaching.
Sorin helped me with releasing more of my own potential we discussed my values my beliefs my attributes that helped me to get to know myself better and get a better vibe with the girls, cause I know what I can offer the girls now. He helped me understand what is happening in the interactions I have with people and what makes people click better with me, he taught me better ways of kino and helped me with getting more comfortable doing kino.

Sorin’s Attributes:

* talking passionately
* being interested in people
* understanding
* flexible

Anxiety, 20, Brasov

Pentru orice intrebari legate de experienta sa la workshop scrieti-i la : snowstalker1@yahoo.com

Firstly you taught me that we are all people. Not robots, I came thinking about openers, negs, routines, patterns and fake body language and I didn’t use any of that. We got to know each other, because we are people and communication is our strong point. After that you found out about us, where the problem is, where we still need to work, what we have to offer to women, so you were able to see how to motivate us and to what extent. You showed us some approaches, where we saw it’s possible and it’s a very good method, that you don’t need all the ideas from the indirect method. That we are not robots to program or be programmed. That women have the right to say no, same as us and that it’s not politically correct to manipulate them.

After that, we did some approaches, from my perspective I made a huge leap forward concerning seduction. I received the most beautiful rejects in my life and it seemed that every reject motivated me to do another approach just to see the girl’s reaction to being honest, genuine and upfront about what i felt. I learnt that I have to be relaxed and know what I want. To know what I can offer to a woman, to show her that I can offer her that. I saw that no girl is un approachable, and using direct, I stopped wanting to know “who lies more…”.. haha

You motivated us and you pushed us from behind and that mattered a lot, we realised we’ve got nothing to lose, that I really don’t care if the girl turns me down, especially because she now does it nicely. I learnt that I am in the community and do all this for myself, to get to know girls, I am the most important person and I am working on my own personal development.